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An open letter to Ancestry and 23& Me – Suggestions of what you can do better to support DCP
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Being a DCP and feeling exploited
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Why the “So wanted” phrase can be very triggering for DCP
Being “so wanted” is about the recipient parents‘ (RP’s) feelings. Not the DCP’s. What heterosexual RP’s “wanted” was a baby that was half of the Mum and half of the Dad. What they got for a donor conceived child was half of the Mum and half a stranger. It is a statement that is made…
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Why Implications Counselling MUST be mandatory for Intending Parents
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Why DCP find the term “Dibling” to be challenging
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DCP: What you could say to someone who asks you whether they should have a Donor Conceived child
Why do intending parents think it’s appropriate to ask a DCP whether they should have a DC child? Do they not understand how VERY triggering this can be for a DCP? Many late discovery DCP would not wish being donor conceived on anyone: are just some of the potential issues that DCP are faced with.…
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Being the secret and keeping the secret
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A stranger in your own family
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OTR – Open The Register cohort
If you were conceived between 1st August 1991- 31st March 2005 you are part of the ‘Open the Register (OTR)’ cohort which is the name given to the group of donor conceived people eligible to apply to the HFEA for non-identifying information about this biological parent/your parents donor. The level of detail can vary greatly. It might be very…
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DCR – Donor Conceived Register cohort
If you were conceived before 1st August 1991, when the Human Fertilisation and Embryology Act (1990, 2008 amended) came into force you are part of the ‘Donor Conceived Register (DCR)’ cohort. Unfortunately, before 1st August 1991, donor conception in the UK was not regulated by law (there was a voluntary system only) so clinics were…
