Category: Uncategorized
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Stuart – Donated 2006-2007
Name: Stuart Donated: 2006 – 2007 Where donated: Esperance Hospital, Eastbourne I was a donor at the Esperance Hospital in Eastbourne between 2006 and 2007, when I was 34. At the time, it felt like a straightforward and positive thing to do; a way to help people who wanted to become parents. Now, nearly two decades later, the…
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Maggie – 1944
Name: Maggie Conceived: 1944 Where conceived: Margaret Jackson clinic, Exeter I discovered I was Donor Conceived last year when I was 80 years old, after doing an ancestry test. Luckily for me it wasn’t a complete shock as I had suspected this for many years. I knew my mother had been a patient of Dr. Margaret…
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Amy – 1996
Name: Amy Conceived: 1996 Where Conceived: Coventry, UK In March 2026, I went back home for the weekend and my whole life changed. My Mum sat me down and dropped a huge bombshell on me. She said my Dad was not my biological father. I had actually been conceived through IVF using donor sperm. To say this information…
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You can’t measure this in percentages
I wanna talk about how deep and complex and difficult and slow figuring out our feelings can be about being conceived this way. I wanna say that I don’t agree with the kind of assessments and percentage type questionnaires that have potential parents going ‘see it’s ok because the HFEA website states that statistically donor…
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Nothing was real. It was all based on a lie.
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DCP: Telling the next generation, the intergenerationally conceived DCP
Risk of consanguinity with a cousin or a 2nd cousin. Been done to them. Have no control over this, at all.
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Historical Donor Conception is nearly always surrounded by secrets, lies, erased histories and trauma
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Definition of Terms for Donors
Anonymous Donors Anyone conceived before August 1991 will have an anonymous donor. Using an anonymous Donor is unethical. Using an anonymous Donor, in any capacity and regardless of when identity release is made available, is NOT in the best interests of the DCP. Known Donors Known Donors are donors that are known to the Recipient…
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“My brain exploded. I felt as though my life had been a lie”
Listen to: You Look Like Me, Season 1, Episode 1 “I am Donor Conceived”
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We are adults releasing shame that never belonged to us
